Saturday, December 19, 2009

We interrupt your regularly scheduled blog post to ask for a Christmas miracle.

So, if you follow my Twitter, you know that this has been a pretty awful day for my big brother.

He and his new wife, Gretchen, recently moved 8 hours from the rest of our family so he can attend Associated Mennonite Biblical Seminary in South Bend. This weekend, we all came out to my grandparents' house near Milan, Indiana to celebrate Christmas. Like we have every year since... well, before I existed.

This morning is when they got the call. Just in time for Christmas, they've lost pretty much everything. Their apartment building has burned. Since the fire was on the lower level and they live upstairs, their stuff is *technically* intact. But the firefighters consider it a total loss anyway, as the structural integrity of the building is gone. They probably won't be able to safely get up there to salvage anything.

Their two cats were visiting at Mom's house in Petersburg, so they're safe. The downstairs neighbor's bulldog was not so lucky. He didn't get out of the building.

Jason stands to lose thousands of dollars worth of musical instruments and books. More importantly, they need some temporary lodging for themselves and the cats. It looks like some friends they've made up there are going to step in to help out in the housing department.

The only clothes, shoes, etc. they have are what they brought with them to Milan. If you or someone you know lives in the South Bend area and have something to give, Jason wears men's 40-inch jeans and XL shirts. Gretchen's a 14/16, L shirt size.

I was thinking more in terms of covering their material needs i.e. clothing, food, etc. but people have expressed interest in giving money. We're still looking into options as far as monetary donations. He doesn't prefer to go with Paypal, so I'll take alternate suggestions. I will update with a link for donation once that's squared away.

I believe in the good of people, even total strangers, especially around this time of year. Obviously, I really care a lot about my brother and his wife and I'd love nothing more than for some stability to be returned to them. We'll do as much as we can for them, but my parents live as far south as you can be and still live in Indiana, and my Jason and Gretchen are way up in South Bend. I'm in the middle, and I can give a little, but I'm still recovering from my own financial hardships myself. Though I'd love to give him the world, I'm not able right now.

Please lend your support in this time, even if all you can provide is well-wishing. If you'd like to give money or materials, I can hook you up with the info you'll need for that.

Sorry this isn't particularly articulate. We're still pretty much in shock. I know it'll be OK, but we just... aren't there yet.

Update: Here's my brother's post on the subject. Since they're down here, they haven't yet seen how bad the damage is. However, they did just get a call from a neighbor who says it looks, from the outside, like the bedroom and everything in it is most likely unsalvageable. Don't know about the rest of the apartment yet. They probably won't know until Monday.

UPDATE: Apparently he caved and got a PayPal. Too many people requesting a place to send aid. Here's his blog post with the PayPal info.

From the post:

Due to a large volume of requests, you can now make donations via PayPal. PayPal accepts all major credit cards, as well as direct transfers from bank accounts. All donations will go for two purposes:

1) Helping us secure a new living space, this includes costs for housing deposit, utility deposit, and any upfront rent requirements; and,

2) Costs that will go towards helping us replace our things. This includes essentials like clothes, kitchen items, linens, basic furniture needs, and the like, as well as things we need but aren’t immediately essential. This includes replacing my musical gear (which is how I make most of my living via performing and lessons), library (which I need for continuing my studies), my wife’s rather substantial yarn collection (which she uses to make and occasionally sell items to provide an additional income stream for us), and other things that we need to replace, but aren’t necessarily immediate priority.

I know I can get another tenor sax eventually. What I can’t do is get another antique Beuscher with which I’ve become so intimately familiar I know every intonation quirk and trick needed to make things like altissimo notes work properly. But thank God we’re ok and even though some things will be difficult to replace, the truth is that stuff is just stuff – again, thank God no one was injured or worse.

Paypal link

I'll get up the church address as soon as we've cleared it with the church. Thanks again, everyone.


8 comments:

  1. From one farker to another, I can help with some shoes. Email me at faber.logan@gmail.com and we can talk.

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  2. Oh and I work for a major footwear/apparel retail company so please email me when you can.

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  3. Thank you. I'm not a TF'er, so I can't see what's going on. Might have to pay the 5 bucks for a month so I can see what's going on.

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  4. Still waiting on that email but not much. Here is what has been posted:
    SearchN [TotalFark] Quote 2009-12-19 04:37:49 PM
    Willing to help. Left a note on your blog.


    elvisaintdead [TotalFark] Quote 2009-12-19 04:57:42 PM
    please do post that 'donations' account when established.
    also, post this again, on TFD tonite. you may even get a few lurkers to pony up.

    no renter's insurance?
    / no snark - it's very cheap and really worth it.

    good luck to you all.


    CPT Ethanolic [TotalFark] Quote 2009-12-19 05:20:30 PM
    Said farkette is a hottie (pic in link) which is inspiring my christmas spirit.

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  5. And seriously, email me. I may have a ton of clothing to give away as well as shoes.

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  6. Email sent, luv. And I have officially got a month of TF so I can keep up and update and such.

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  7. Oh man, this just keeps getting worse. I saw a news picture. It's definitely a total loss. And for some reason, the report says the apartment was vacant. SO not true--they've been living there for months.

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  8. renter's insurance.

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